The mistake we atimes make is to think our cross is (or would be) similar to another persons… We live in oblivion! But get fustrated when we realise we can’t get through our huddles the same way the next person did. It rather requires that we patiently cultivate our own unique strategy else we fail woefully. Yes! Those that care will encourage or advice but Will and Choice ultimately resides with us. This is life, let it be between you and God because it would eventually end between you and God.
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Our crosses are different and so the approach to carry it successfully will be different too. We really need to stop comparing ourselves to other s and fix our eyes on the author and finisher of our faith; Jesus Christ
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A wonderful truth Grace, we all are distinct & very special in our own ways as ordained by the Supreme Father.He only decides n knows our course of journey , lanes . It is time we desisted from comparing with others n surrendered to God’s wishes.Bless you!
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We all have different lanes to run in the race of life…it is only God who knows what’s up on that lane…
Good word.
Bless you!
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Thanks Sis 🌹 bless you too
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Amen
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